Why the distance?

Does your ex not want to hear any mention of you? Have they cut off all contact?  Don’t know how to take this extreme reaction?   Do you want to see them again?  Do you want to reinitiate contact because you still love them but you don’t know how to go about it? 


Want to know if it's really over?  Read the 10 Disconcertingly Positive Signs Your Ex is Definitely Over You on All Women Stalk

Charm your ex anew

The Love Intelligence method gives you the keys to get your ex back in all subtlety and in such a way that you ‘reveal’ yourself differently! Step 3 of the Love Intelligence method, “In what ways am I unique,” will help you charm more authentically and in a stronger way so that you can succeed in your romantic affairs. You need another angle, a new attitude, strong messages that will make him or her react to you. Step 4 will help you to create this talking point between you and him/her. 

Never forget that when you split up, you need to leave your ex time to realize they miss you.  You have to have a distant and mysterious way about you to seduce your ex without them being aware of it.  Some people prefer not to keep in contact in the beginning, and then get back in touch later.  So don’t worry, good things come to those who can wait.  But it’s true that you need to know how to deal with the past and insist on the delicate aspects of the break-up or of your ex’s distance, those that are making them react they way they are.


Read what Marie Claire has to say on the importance of taking some space.

Do you know the causes of this silence?

First off, have you asked yourself: where is his prolonged silence is coming from? ;

- Did you two split up on bad terms? ;

- Does your ex not want to stay friends because it’s sometimes too painful? ;

- Was there a betrayal? ;

- Who left who?

Step 1 of the method will help you sort things out to rekindle a lighter relationship with less tension.  The chance of you getting back with your ex will correspond to the how much you’ve matured since the last time you met verses the next time.  They must understand that you’ve changed, that you’ve matured.  The Love Intelligence method is made for this. 

Don’t rush things if you feel that he or she isn’t ready to talk to you again!  It’s important to respect and accept each person’s decisions.  This certainly isn’t the opportune moment to reestablish contact, so wait a little bit before trying again, and take advantage of this time to read the key steps of the method!

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"Once it's over, it's over"

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